Monthly Archive for September, 2008

Odds and Ends

Published on September 29, 2008 in blog and sex. 7 Comments

Yes, I’m being slowly sucked into this affiliate thing – I’ve just added Vibe Review as an affiliate in the sidebar. (I deliberately chose one of their banners without sexy imagery as someone, Jess, I believe, said that the nekkid pics would make it hard to view with her children around.) I’ve never shopped with them so I really can’t speak about their customer service. Truth be told, I’m hoping they offer toys to review. I haven’t made a dime off the Babeland affiliate thing yet, so I figure I’ll see if I can get paid in sex toys. I have two more toys coming from Babeland shortly.

I’ve seen on other blogs where the author answers questions from readers, and I wondered – does anyone have any questions for me? Any sexual philosophies you want me to wax poetic on? Leave ‘em in the comments and I will answer what I can. (Of course I reserve the right not to answer something!) I’d like to write some entries that are more about sex and bdsm theory and knowledge than just the wonderful things I get up to. I can’t see MasterDoc all the time, so I need something to keep me writing in the interim. (Anything you’d like to see me write about, MasterDoc?) I chatted via my digsby widget the other day with a nice young Brazillian woman looking for advice on anal sex (lots of lube! take your time!). I’m quite prepared to act as the Ann Landers of sexuality. And being a librarian, I may just cite references! I don’t have any formal education in sexuality, but I do have lots of experience (yes, the girl is a slut) and have read widely on the subject.

Search Strings, Part 2

Published on September 28, 2008 in Uncategorized. 1 Comment

‘horny librarian’

‘how do you fancy having your asshole filled by 14 cocks’ (??)

‘kinky cunt’

‘spanked and fondled’

‘diary of a horny girl’

‘sexual well being’ (Cool!)

“wonderful orgasms”

‘my boyfriend started spanking me and I moaned’

‘librarian kink’

‘how to perform earth shattering analingus’

Our Version of a Quiet Night In

Published on September 27, 2008 in D/s, bdsm, blow jobs, cunt, orgasm denial, orgasm on command, pillow princess, porn, sex and spanking. 1 Comment

MasterDoc and I had a quiet night in last night. But of course if you read this blog regularly you’ll know that a quiet night in for us isn’t necessarily boring. We went out to dinner (the first time in over a year of dating), shared a huge strawberry daiquiri (yum) and then went back to his place. A great way to end a long, busy week. At his place he tells me that he’s in the mood to come that night, and that the focus is going to be on him. I’m really horny so I’m hoping that in the midst of things he’ll decide to fuck me after all, but I had my collar on by this point so I didn’t say a thing, I just focused on what he wanted.

He put porn on the tv and the computer. I was getting hornier and hornier watching the porn. I felt like I was going to crawl out of my skin if I didn’t get touched soon. He had me get the lube and stroke his cock. Being so horny, I really focused on what I was doing and the reaction I got out of him. I apparently came very close to making him come. I was very into touching him and making him feel good last night.

He had me suck his cock for a while, but then had me stop as he got distracted with a phone call. At one point he told me to lube up my asshole, as he was going to fuck my ass. I got excited but it was mostly just a tease. He told me to play with myself, and I was already really wet. I ached to come. Then he decided that, yes, he was going to fuck me and asked me if I had a preference which hole. I said I didn’t have a preference and he decided to fuck my pussy. I got on my knees on the mat on the floor. (My knee is still sore from my fall last week. But it’s better than it was and so it was to the point where I could just think of it as a bdsm-related pain as he fucked me.)

He fucked me for a while, getting me more and more turned on. He fucked me fairly hard and it was so hard to hold back from coming. I begged for orgasm a couple of times, and he told me that I would be in trouble if I asked again. The agony! I so desperately wanted to come but wasn’t allowed to even ask. I struggled for a while, trying not to say anything, just moaning with pleasure as he fucked me. I had to try to divert my attention away from what he was doing to me, so I wouldn’t go over the edge and come. It felt so amazing. Finally, in a frenzy, I moaned out, “Please.” He slapped my ass really hard several times. I was in trouble for giving in and asking. I had tried so hard but I just couldn’t help myself, it felt so amazing. He gets me at such a high state of arousal I can’t help myself; I’m delirious from being touched.

He fucked me for a little longer. I whimpered as that was all I could do since I couldn’t beg. He eventually pushes me away and I fall forward onto the mat. I thought that was it for now, but after a few brief moments he comes up to me, spanks my ass and grabs my hair. “Come, cunt.” And it takes me a few seconds to get there but simply from being aroused, and having him hit my ass and grab me roughly by the hair, I have the most amazing orgasm. No genital stimulation at all at that point. He handles me roughly and holds me close as I have orgasm after orgasm. I clutched at the mat I lay on, and didn’t let go until a few minutes after he had finished with me. He later said that he hadn’t planned to let me come since I had been bad, but he felt pity on me as I lay on the floor. I am such a lucky girl. Really, he is so good to me. In the end, he didn’t end up coming, which I was a little sad about as I really wanted to get him off. (Perhaps I’m learning to be less selfish and less of a pillow princess.)

He had me get dressed and go to his car to get the Sex and the City movie he rented. We watched the movie on the sofa (the quiet night in part of the night) and cuddled a bit. It’s definitely a chick flick, and perhaps a bit sappy, but I was in a romantic mood last night so I got sucked right in.

I only got an evening and a morning with him this week, and I wish I had more time with him, but I’m trying to be a good girl and not give him a hard time about it at all. I will just have to be patient until the next time I get to see him.

Orange

Published on September 27, 2008 in Uncategorized. 0 Comments

D.S. was in the area on Thursday so he asked to stop in for a visit. He’s soon moving to San Francisco and so I won’t get to see him for a long time (or, heck, who even knows if we will see each other again). We hung out and laughed so much. Even though he’s not a daily part of my life, I will miss him. I was feeling sorta blah during his visit, headachy and such, and I was feeling really blase about having sex. Luckily while chatting on line with MasterDoc he nudged us towards the bedroom, and a friend of D.S. IMed him with a nudge towards the bedroom, and so D.S. pointed out that his tongue on my clit might make my headache go away. I figured what the heck, it might, and when is the next time I’m going to get to fool around with him anyway?

Davey had said to me earlier that he was fine with D.S. and I heading off to the bedroom alone while he’s here. It was getting late, so we were aware that we couldn’t take a lot of time (Davey and I both had work in the morning). We quickly got naked and started kissing and touching. Soon he was between my legs working his magic with his tongue and fingers. That boy is truly talented with using tongue and fingers in combination. I came a couple of times and then he said to me, “I’d really like to fuck you.” Rowr. So I went to grab a condom.

Now, D.S. had dyed his hair recently. He had wanted it to be “cherry bomb” but there was no dye in that color so he settled for “hot lava,” which is a fiery orange color. When reaching in the container under the bed for condoms I spotted the orange ones and decided that would go with his hair. *grin* So I fucked an orange haired boy wearing an orange condom. My life is very amusing indeed. (I’m just easily amused.)

It was hot fucking him as usual, although with my legs over his shoulders he got in a little too deep. I had to have him back off a bit with the depth, and put my legs down to keep it from hurting a little. He was clearly so aroused to be fucking me, and that’s hot. He came after a little while, apologizing for being so turned on and relatively fast. But he offered to give me more orgasms, which I took him up on. Hot. We cuddled a little bit afterwards. Then he slept in the spare room and Davey and I slept in the main bedroom. I slept really well that night.

The next morning there was just a little time to hang out and have breakfast before I had to kick him out and head to work. I think I didn’t want to admit it to myself, but I will miss him.

HNT

Published on September 25, 2008 in hnt. 3 Comments

I may not always be happy with my body, but I love my breasts and the fact that I have soft, pale skin.

The Mundane Details

Published on September 24, 2008 in D/s and submissive. 0 Comments

When I talk about being submissive, I mainly focus on the hot, sexual parts. After all, that’s what people generally want to read about. But every now and then I think about mentioning the other bits, the less glamorous parts. I do mention cleaning from time to time, but not the extent of chores I have around MasterDoc’s place. I’m in charge of watering his plants now, cleaning the toilet; I run the dishwasher when I see it’s needed and put the clean dishes away. I run the bath for him; I dry between his toes when he gets out of the bath. I gather laundry, making sure to check the pockets as he frequently leaves stuff in the pockets. I change the sheets. Sometimes I take out the garbage or recycling. I do all this with little or no complaining (or at least try to). I’m a bit lazy by nature, as Davey can attest, but MasterDoc inspires me to serve him. (Don’t worry Davey, I get lax about the toilet cleaning there, too.) The dynamic of my relationship is so completely different than the dynamic of my relationship with Davey. Davey is a sweetheart and usually I’m looking at him with puppy dog eyes asking him to go get me something from the kitchen. WIth MasterDoc, I’m the one getting up to get him some more water. I would have thought that I’d get tired of serving but for the right Dom I can see where it’s fulfilling. Of course, sometimes I just want to be lazy and have to overcome the inertia to do my duty as a submissive.

NYC Sex Blogger Calendar

Published on September 23, 2008 in Uncategorized. 0 Comments

After my epiphany the other day about the shows I do with MasterDoc being sex work (and as G. pointed out both of us qualify as sex workers for doing them) you won’t be surprised to hear I’m contributing money to the NYC Sex Blogger Calendar. I’ve bought a calendar and a date on the calendar (to promote this blog of course) and wanted to post about it here as well. The money raised goes to Sex Work Awareness. The calendar will feature NYC sex bloggers (no I wasn’t asked to join, no naughty librarian pics) in pin-up photos (no full nudity, just cheesecake, which is tons of fun in and of itself). They make ordering a calendar simple to do via paypal. So head on over to New York City Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar.

Review: The Archer Wand

Published on September 22, 2008 in masturbation, reviews and sex toys. 2 Comments

When I got home today, the first toy for me to review for Babeland was waiting by the door. I was all excited because until this past Saturday, I had never used a glass dildo before, so I had been looking forward to the arrival of the archer wand. Despite this not being my first time, I was excited to use a different, thicker glass dildo today. The archer wand is a curved glass dildo. It has balls at either end – nice, rounded balls – nothing to poke your tender g-spot.

I immediately went to the bedroom and took my pants and panties off. I had my nea handy because I had a feeling that a dildo wouldn’t get me off alone when I’m the one wielding it (someone else holding it, however, can definitely get me off). I took the time to use the Eros (aforementioned medical device), like MasterDoc wants me to, while having the archer wand inside of me. I played with the wand in between using the Eros (you take one minute breaks between each one minute clit suction session). The archer wand is nicely curved so that rocking the external end up and down nudges the internal side right against your g-spot. The smooth, hard glass feels nice and warms to your body temperature. The packaging says that you can even chill or warm the wand for a few minutes for a different sensation. (Not all glass dildoes can sustain a range of temperatures, check your packaging before putting it in a bowl of ice water or running it under the hot tap. Unless they’re made of pyrex, or a similar type of glass, some can crack at extreme temperatures.)

I find that I can’t get enough leverage with a dildo to thrust it hard enough to get myself off – it’s just the angle of my own arms versus what angle someone else could come at me. It felt good to jiggle the wand up and down and it nudged my g-spot nicely. The smoothness of the glass felt good inside, no friction. I ended up adding my vibrating nea on my clit to give me that extra push towards orgasm. I discovered that by clenching my thighs together, I could get the outer end of the wand between them and by undulating my hips it would press the wand against my g-spot. I moved my hips like this and used the vibe on my clit until I came oh so close to a terrific orgasm. Then I backed off with the vibe so I wouldn’t come just yet. I jiggled the wand with my hand a bit then went back to pressing it between my thighs. The combination of the wand inside me and the vibe on my clit led to a fantastic orgasm.

As it’s made of glass that can withstand temperature changes, you can boil the archer wand to disinfect it, put it in the dishwasher, or simply use soap and water like I did. Glass is non-porous and won’t, therefore, harbor bacteria. It makes for a very user-friendly toy indeed. Each archer wand is hand-blown and thus slight variations may occur from one to the next. The strong glass is supposed to withstand minor bumps and drops.

Sexy Evening

Published on September 21, 2008 in D/s, bdsm, bisexuality, foursome, orgasm on command, sex and threesome. 0 Comments

It took me a while to write this entry, as so much went on last night. I hope I remembered it all!

Last night a couple I’ve gotten to know on fetlife came to see us. The wife had come on her own before and this time her husband came along as well. They’re both fans of this blog. Max, the husband, brought me a book on karate because he said he saw some parallels to it and bdsm. He inscribed the book to me. I was really touched.

We all talked for a while, sipping wine, and MasterDoc came over to sit next to me to try to get things started. He had me take my pants off, get on my knees in front of the sofa and bend over. He demonstrated some spanking and I felt pretty sensitive, I think from having been spanked so much over the weekend already. He encouraged Max and G. to come over and try spanking me. They both did a little, thankfully much softer than MasterDoc does it. (Yeah I know, I shouldn’t complain, most of the time I love it.) I got to enjoy being the center of attention as the three of them took turns spanking and caressing me. MasterDoc gave the nea to Max and he started playing with my cunt with it. He buzzed it around my clit and hole. He tried using it penetratively, which doesn’t work so well, so I told him that it’s best on my clit. I was the only person who was half naked for a while.

Next, MasterDoc had me sit on the sofa, legs spread, one leg over his lap. He took a glass toy that the couple had brought and slipped a condom over it. He slid it in me, exploring how it felt. I had never used a glass dildo before and I was glad to get to try one (although I should have one on the way from Babeland to review). The bumps in the glass were nice and the shape of the dildo let it bump against my g-spot quite easily. MasterDoc teased me with it, getting me breathless and wanting to come. He switched to his fingers when it turned out that the glass toy was a bit too much when it hit my cervix (used shallowly it works quite well). He fingered me and had me begging to come. He decided to have Max and G. take turns fingering me. (Max hurt his hand this week and ended up taking a break to get something to drink and take some pain medicine.) G. fingered me, and MasterDoc told me to come and I came at his command. I grabbed tightly onto him as I rode the waves of orgasm. He slapped my thighs while I was coming – which really friggin hurt! (Funny how sometimes it’s, “Yes, yes, hurt me!” and other times I wish I could say, “Bloody hell, that hurt! Cut it out!”) G. stopped fingering me and MasterDoc got her to do it some more. He told me right away to come as quickly as possible. It took a moment but soon I did again, and hard.

We had been enjoying some chocolate for dessert and a piece left on the dvd player melted somewhat. MasterDoc dabbed some of the melted chocolate on my inner thighs. G. licked the chocolate off and it felt heavenly. She’s very sensual and sexy and I loved having her tongue slide across my thighs.

We moved to the bedroom. Max had wandered off outside to get some gatorade to have with his pain meds. (He sliced a tendon in his hand the other day. Ouch). That left me, MasterDoc and G. alone. They lay on the bed on either side of me and played with my breasts and took turns playing with my cunt. It felt wonderful. I just closed my eyes and laid back and enjoyed the sensations. MasterDoc took off my collar so I could feel less subby and be more active. It was hard to get out of the mindset, however.

He had me put G. in between us and we each took a side, playing with her breasts. I stroked her clit, which seemed to really turn her on. He fingered her for a bit, and then I took a turn, then he took a turn again. I’m not sure if we made her come, however it’s really beautiful to watch a woman’s face up close when she’s experiencing pleasure. The way her facial muscles tense up, the sighs she lets out. It’s a delight.

Eventually Max made his way back to the apartment and joined us on the bed. He got naked and pressed up close behind me. He slid a hand between my legs and I enjoyed the sensation of being played with. MasterDoc was getting ready to fuck G. and I tried to watch as much as possible as I find it really hot to watch him with someone else. Max kept murmuring in my ear how happy he was to meet me. It’s kinda funny having a fan, I didn’t expect to be looked at as a minor (very minor, lol) celebrity for my blogging. I’m just some kinky girl who likes to blog, and yet there’s a few people out there who think what I do is great and feel a little star struck around me. It’s sweet and a strange feeling at the same time. It’s a nice feeling, very flattering, but it makes me wish I was the “being worshipped” type of gal as I’d really get into it then. (It’s a pity. I know various bottomy-type men who are wonderful, who I’m very fond of, but in bed I just want to be taken and used so we’re not really sexually compatible. I’m really glad I met MasterDoc because he can use me roughly and yet still be wonderful.) I ended up going down on Max a bit, he went down on me and I continued to watch MasterDoc play with G. I guess sometimes I am a little voyeuristic.

It was getting late and MasterDoc decided he was going to bed. Max had gotten a late start and we ladies couldn’t just leave him hanging, so we took turns going down on him, giving him handjobs, playing with his ass. He was in heaven having two lovely ladies playing with him. He had me straddle his face for a while. We played for quite a while but an orgasm didn’t seem to be in the cards for him. Pity. He fucked G. for a bit and I watched. Then MasterDoc came in to ask everyone to be a little more quiet so as not to disturb the neighbors, and we all decided to call it a night at that time. I cuddled up to MasterDoc for a few minutes before we went to sleep and reflected on the fun evening we had had. I just know I’m leaving little tidbits out of this entry, but I don’t want to make it longer than it already is. I think you get the idea that it was a very sexy and sensual evening with a really nice couple. (And now two blog readers have become part of the story here.)