Diary of a Kinky Librarian

On Saturday I had a date with someone I’ve been talking to for a while now. I briefly mentioned D.S. on this blog before, I gave him a shout out once I knew he was reading the blog and I specifically said that he’s not a “judgmental prat” (which we joke about often, but really, he’s not judgmental nor is he a prat). He’s a very sweet, bi, poly, kinky slut not unlike myself. You’ll be surprised to hear that we didn’t have sex on our date, but then I was menstrual like crazy and riding out some miserable cramps. I hardly felt like a sex symbol yesterday. While I don’t mind having sex during my period, I never want it to be the first time I have sex with someone if I can help it. So our date consisted of meeting for lunch then hanging out at his place. We cuddled and kissed and the poor boy was all nervous around me. (Which I have a hard time understanding as I’m extremely laid back when meeting people.) He got very talkative due to being nervous and I did my usual “get really quiet” in response to being nervous. This worked out pretty well actually as he kept conversation going even while I was quiet. We watched some Kids in the Hall and I met his girlfriend when she got home from work. It was a very pleasant date and I look forward to hanging out with him again soon. Such a sweetie.

I got home around dinner time so I could spend some time with Davey. He was unsure if I would be up for some nookie considering how I was feeling (crampy and gross) but since it had been nearly a week since we had sex I wanted to make a point of spending some naked cuddle time with him. I took a shower and put in an instead cup and we had sex. Yay! It was so nice to be naked and pressed up against him. I love him so much.