Diary of a Kinky Librarian

I was overjoyed to be able to try the SaSi, available exclusively at Babeland. It’s supposed to be the closest thing to oral sex without a partner. It also has memory, and stores the movements you like so it can do more of them next time. I had been eyeing it for quite some time.

I tried it out solo as it really seems like a solo toy. There’s a nub underneath a silicone membrane that moves around in different patterns (much like a tongue). The toy also vibrates (with steady and intermittent settings). It’s rechargeable so no batteries needed. It comes in a lovely gift box and includes plug adapters so you can charge it in a variety of countries, which I’ve never seen in a sex toy before.

I love clitoral stimulation, so I was eager to feel the nub slide along my clit. I had to read the instructions but hadn’t quite figured out the ins and outs yet (it’s the most complicated sex toy I’ve ever owned). I set it on the favorites setting, which can cycle through five popular movements. (I tried the programmable mode later.) Using the SasSi was a slow build. It’s nice to be able to change up the rubbing motion when one becomes tiresome. Ultimately, it made me come but it was slow getting there and it didn’t keep me at a level where I could come again easily. All in all not bad, but I tend to prefer toys that rocket me towards orgasm as quick as possible. I was, however, really wet afterwards.

The second time I tried it I got out the directions again and figured out how to use the programmable mode. You can click the buttons to move on to a new motion if you don’t like that one, or it will cycle through to the next one after 20 seconds. If you find something you really like you hit the middle “don’t stop” button to keep the movement going until you decide it’s time to move on to the next one. The little nub feels divine. It’s still a really slow build to orgasm, but again I got really wet. I came really hard, but I was also rubbing it against me while it stroked and vibrated. It’s not easy to reach orgasm, but wonderful once you get there. It’s hard to build back up to another orgasm right after you’ve had one. The nub also leaves my clit a little irritated after a while (I definitely recommend using some water-based lube).

It comes with a black storage bag and storing it in this left black smudges on the pink silicone. If you like to languidly masturbate then you will probably love the SaSi. If you’re looking for something quicker and stronger I recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand.