The lesbian looking only for sex turned out to be super-butch and just not my type. I just sent her a kindly email letting her know this. I hope she takes it well. I hate rejecting people but I try to keep in mind how I prefer being rejected and act accordingly. Avoiding the point only ends up hurting people. When I was rejected by the cute librarian a few months ago she was so kind about it that I was able to accept it and move on. Of course, not everyone is me. We’ll see how it goes. I apologized for the attraction not being there (not even remotely, to tell you all the truth!) and mentioned how attraction is one of those funny things that’s either there or not. I had a sinking feeling that a heavily tattooed white lesbian from New Jersey might look as she looks, and I was right. She seems like a cool enough person, just not my type. And if we’re talking about getting together for the purpose of fucking, then I need to feel attracted. End of story.
I haven’t heard back from the cute Latina. I’m not fretting yet as our meeting seemed to go well, and she ended up kissing me on the cheek goodbye that night (which might have been aimed for my lips but as I wasn’t expecting a kiss my head averted for a hug) and it’s typical to not hear from her for periods of time. *sigh* I just really like her and want to get things moving if they’re going in a positive direction. I don’t want to email her too much though, and be annoying or clingy. It’s been days since I asked her about her availability for the brunch she suggested we have. How long do I wait before I email her again? *sigh*
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