Sometimes, when you’re a blogger, you need to get behind on your blogging. If you don’t go out and LIVE your life, then what will you have to write about? I’ve been low on original content this week because I’ve been busy. Tuesday I saw MasterDoc and had a wonderful sybian ride. Guys, if you have back issues or other physical impairments I highly recommend getting a sybian. While it’s true that there are a few women who don’t like it, the majority will be perfectly happy if you sit them on the sybian and give them one hell of a ride simply by turning the dials. It’s not enough to put them on and turn it on - turning it all the way to the top might get them off, but it’s not nearly as fun as playing with the vibration and teasing them. Work your woman into a frenzy, make her really want to come but keep the vibration just low enough that it won’t get her off. But don’t keep it low all the time - variation is the name of the game. MasterDoc has gotten quite skilled at giving sybian rides. And believe me, while I love PIV sex (penis-in-vagina) I can be quite (QUITE!) content with an exhausting series of earth shattering orgasms on the sybian. Lately, I have to lie down on the floor after I’ve come. Yes, it’s that good.
Wednesday was a quiet night in with Davey, then on Thursday I headed to the big city to meet up with Diva and Tess (and a few others, like Mina Meow, her lovely girlfriend, and Dov, who I met that night and photographer Barbara Nitke who had just shot Mina and Diva’s pictures for the 2010 NYC Sex Blogger Calendar). The group of us had dinner and then I went with Tess and Diva to Audacia Ray’s new Sex Worker Literati reading series (the inaugural evening). I find that I really enjoy these various readings I’ve gone to lately. Smart, sexy, amusing, enlightening - between In The Flesh and Sex Worker Literati I get a wonderful glimpse into the sex world from various points of view. Plus I feel cool - like someone who’s part of a salon of talented and amazing people. I’m incredibly shy - often time moreso when I meet people like 2009 calendar pin ups like Jamye Waxman and Sinclair Sexsmith (who currently graces the wall in my kitchen). I should say, “Hi I’d like to introduce myself, I’m Nadia.” but I’m a total spazz who just hovers around her friends and says nothing. Sad, yes. Especially since everyone seems really nice! I did get introducted to Klawdya, who I knew from the NCSF’s (National Coalition for Sexual Freedon) postings online. I also chatted a bit with the sexy Natt Nightly (who I’ve had a schoolgirl crush on since the calendar party last year) who I had met before. He’s so nice. And cute. *sigh*
I got home late that night and the next day had a doctor’s appointment (nothing glamorous - just heartburn issues) and then met at MasterDoc’s with my friend Max Malini (his site’s down for the moment) so he could help with MasterDoc’s wireless issues and my blog upkeep. We didn’t end up getting to the blog stuff, but Max will work on things in my absence. Hopefully some minor tweaks like photo sizing will soon be fixed. I had wanted him to teach me how to do it (I can do some stuff but updating wordpress when automatic update won’t cooperate has been beyond me.) Max is a wonderfully nice and intelligent guy who heaps praise on me and my blog. His wife, who I’ve blogged about here before, is beautiful and sexy. I wish I had the chance to see her as well yesterday! I’m really happy they found me via fetlife and we became friends. You can never have too many nice, intelligent pervert friends, I say.
And last night, I had a date. MasterDoc asked me I was going to be a good girl and of course I knew the right answer was, “Yes.” He prefers I don’t sleep with someone on the first date, and it’s probably not a bad policy to have. Of course, I’m a naughty girl and I go looking for loopholes. I had a really nice time with my date, and plan to see him again. We made out in his car and eventually I opted to give him a blow job/hand job. I’m not sure how MasterDoc will take to that, but I figure hey, I didn’t take my panties off, I didn’t have sex. Hell, I didn’t orgasm (and as a result had a long series of sex dreams last night. I tell you ALL my dreams last night involved sex). I have another date tonight with someone else, and I think I really should masturbate before going out so I don’t feel so tempted to give into my urges. Believe me, it was difficult not to jump the guy I was out with last night. But I behaved.
Nadia the kinkylibrarian: “I did not have sexual relations with that man” (her date on Friday night).
No babe, you just gobbled his dick down your throat.
All those who feel my peeing down that throat would be a suitable substitute for impeachment speak up now!