Diary of a Kinky Librarian

I wasn’t going to write about my evening with MasterDoc last night because nothing especially interesting happened. But he thought I should write about it to show newbie subs that submission is not all about hot sex. MasterDoc is working long hours this week so I knew he would be tired when he got home last night. I got to his place before he did and I ran the dishwasher. Since I spilled a little of the powdered detergent on the floor I decided to sweep the kitchen floor (it needed it). I had some time to shower, relax, read, watch Cash Cab, before MasterDoc got home.

He called and had me come downstairs to bring stuff up from the car when he got there. He parked and got home a several minutes later (ah the joys of city parking!). He was worn out after working 36 hours in two days, followed by a visit to the gym. I knew he’d be desperate for a bath after sleeping at work the night before, so I offered to draw him a bath. I ran the bathwater while we ordered take out for dinner. He asked for water so I got it for him (frequently I anticipate that he would want it but last night I didn’t). After his bath we watched tv, waited eagerly for the sushi we ordered and just generally hung out. He was tired and I was feeling mellow so we were both fairly quiet. The sushi finally arrived and we ate.

After, we watched a little of the Olympics but then MasterDoc decided to go read (of course a librarian would tend to go for men who are readers, what did you expect?) and I picked up my book. He had me charge his cell phone and set him up for bed time. We cuddled a bit then both read some more. He went off to sleep as I finished the chapter I was on.

Pretty dull, huh? But there was the D/s dynamic still present, I was in the mindset of making his life easier and more pleasant. Yes it’s more fun to serve him by sucking his cock and being the body his flogger hits, but I felt good about being of service nonetheless. One of the things I love about D/s is the fact that in their own ways the Dom and sub take care of each other. I took care of him by drawing a bath, fetching him anything he wanted, and just generally being helpful. He takes care of me by always being available to talk to, giving guidance (sometimes whether I want it or not lol) and he even tried to get a posting on Fetlife taken down when it talked about the guy who assaulted me. (He wanted to get it down before I saw it, but I had already seen it. No matter. But I’m really touched that he would do that for me, or at least try to.) So while D/s is about consensual inequality, there’s something in it for both the Dom and the sub. The sub just ends up doing more chores. *grin*