Archive for the 'swinging' Category

Catching Up

Published
by
Nadia
on October 4, 2008
in D/s, anal, blow jobs, exhibitionism, orgasm denial, sex, slut and swinging
. 2 Comments

Hi all. I’ve been quiet this week because it’s been a busy week. I’ve been kept busy at work, and I’ve spent a few nights at MasterDoc’s and away from my computer. That doesn’t mean I haven’t had some fun, however. Tuesday night was a quiet night with MasterDoc - we do have evenings of just hanging out from time to time. Wednesday night we got naked and had some fun. I really should blog things right after they happen because details quickly become fuzzy.

He used a variety of toys on me, getting me worked up. I was hoping he’d try the archer wand, but that ended up saved for Friday night. Like I said, the details of Wednesday night are a bit fuzzy. I gave him a hand job for a while (surprisingly I didn’t go down on him at all that night, which is highly unusual). I’m pleased to say my handjob skills seem to be generally improving. It’s amazing what a few bits of direction from a Dom can do for your know-how. He fucked me, and kept me right on the edge for quite a while, or at least it felt like quite a while. When he finally allowed me to come, I came, but not as hard as I would have if he had given me permission right at the peak of my arousal. He seemed disappointed that he missed the peak, as he knows my body so well.

He had me play with this cock and ass, and had me insert a toy into him for the very first time (very first time with me, that is). It was a wand that’s curved, so it worked well to hit his prostrate on the inside. It’s fun to watch the expressions on a man’s face as he gets off. I commented a couple of weeks ago about how it’s fun to watch a woman, but I really do enjoy watching a man as well. We kept playing until he came. (Actually I kept going with the toy even after, as I’ve learned that he doesn’t want stimulation to suddenly end when he’s come, but rather to continue a little after. I keep going until he tells me to stop.)

Last night, we went out to a swing club. It was really dead when we got there, so it was a while before we got down to playing. We took some time for cuddles. (Yes, this is probably disappointing to the people who wander into the room hoping to see sex, and there we are, fully clothed, cuddling. I needed some cuddles last night though.) I had a couple of drinks and felt generally better after the cuddling and the drinks. (I had been feeling kinda down.)

After things began to pick up, we went to the back room where we had cuddled, and MasterDoc had me suck his cock. I got it nice and hard and he told me to sit back so he could reach my cunt. I used the nea on my clit while he played around with me. He had a guy (one who I had fucked before but didn’t immediately recognize. Oh yes, I’m a big slut!) play with my tits in the meanwhile. Then he used the archer wand on me. Rowr. I think it’s even more fun when someone else is using it on you. I find that with penetration play I enjoy it more when someone else is doing the playing, whereas with clit play I prefer doing it myself much of the time. The big, bulbous end of the wand nudged against my g-spot. I so wanted to come. I was a horny mass of sluttiness at that point. So when he asked me if I wanted to get fucked, really wanted it, I just had to moan out that yes, yes, I really wanted to get fucked.

He put me on hands and knees and fucked me from behind. We had a nice audience by this time. He had me use a vibe on my clit while he fucked me. I was really turned on and moaning and crying out, “Oh fuck!” I begged for permission to come and each time he said, “Not yet.” I was a very eager, horny slut at that point. I like being at a club because I can be loud about my enjoyment. I can moan and cry out and scream. After a while of fucking, I asked for permission again, no I begged for permission, and he gave it to me. I came hard, but didn’t manage to push his cock out, which was a nice change of pace. He had it thrust deep inside me when he gave me permission to come. The orgasm rocked my body and I screamed out how good it felt. He would grab my hair every so often. I think the audience had a nice show.

He let me lay down to rest, and I caught my breath. By this time I was laying on my back, and the guy who fucked me before offered to work his fingers in me again (I remembered who he was when it was mentioned he was the guy with magic fingers.) and MasterDoc allowed him to do so. I was laying on my back, and a crowd filled the small room. The guy would finger me deep, hitting my g-spot while MasterDoc applied pressure on the outside. I asked for permission to come at will and was given it. I came really hard, really loudly, over and over again. Next, MasterDoc took over with his fingers inside me and the other guy pressed down by my pubic bone. They took their turns playing with me and it was heavenly.

MasterDoc asked if I was ready to be fucked again. I was quite ready. He had me get on top this time and I rode his cock, rocking back and forth. I love the feel of his cock inside me. I was a little tired, but my enthusiasm gave me the wherewithal to keep fucking him until he had decided it was enough. We relaxed for a bit and the crowd dispersed a little. Soon some other people were fooling around in the corner of the room, and it was getting crowded in there again, so MasterDoc had us get dressed and we prepared to leave.

All-in-all it was a terrific night. We headed home around 1:30, so it was relatively early, but I was feeling quite satisfied. (Oh, I nearly forgot to mention, he gave me a little bit of a flogging as I held onto the chains hanging from the St. Andrew’s Cross in the bdsm room. He had let me pack what toys I wanted last night, and I left out anything stingy but I knew I would like the thuddyness of the big flogger.)

Foursome

Published
by
Nadia
on September 18, 2008
in analingus, foursome, swinging and vacation
. 0 Comments

Been away with Davey this week. We had a lovely time - ate too much (and unhealthily at times - sweet crepes for breakfast AND lunch one day), drank too much, and indulged in some sexy stuff. All in all, a good vacation. The other night we met up with a couple. Davey had put an ad on craigslist trying to find couples to play with at our destination. We only got one satisfactory response (i.e., someone who took a moment to write a couple of lines to pique our interest) and we arranged to meet them in a bar by our hotel.

I was nervous meeting them, after all I wasn’t particularly attracted to the guy from the picture he sent, what if there was zero chemistry and we wanted to bail? Luckily when we met them he was better looking than his photo, and at any rate feeling comfortable with someone is more important to me than looks ultimately. We had drinks with them and chatted a bit. They were nice but I doubt they’d be a couple we’d hang out with regularly if they lived nearby. We clicked enough, but when all was said and done it wasn’t an experience I’d go out of my way to repeat. Yes I know I’m a spoiled bitch that I can turn my nose up at reasonably decent vanilla sex but it was just ok. I came, yes, but I had to really focus and work on those orgasms.

So we chatted for a while then they asked if we wanted to hang out or get some rest. I said let’s go hang out and so we went up to our hotel room. After a few minutes all of us ended up sitting on the bed, but getting things started was the awkward part. (There was MUCH awkwardness.) Davey is fairly shy and he was all the way at the other end of the bed, on the other side of me. I at least tried to sit close to the couple, within arm’s length, but I wasn’t any good at instigating. We talked for quite a while longer and I just kept thinking, “How on earth are we going to start this? I wish they’d start something.” And eventually that was the solution, the guy grabbed his woman and started kissing her deeply and groping her breasts. Davey kissed me for a bit as well. We chatted some more and the guy reached out his hand and took mine. Somehow I eventually ended up making out with him and the woman moved closer to Davey and started making out with him. The swap had finally been successful.

So I fooled around with the guy and Davey fooled around with the woman. Every so often I’d look over to see Davey going down on her and she was moaning and writhing around. In the meanwhile, the guy passionately sucked on my nipples and got me to take my shirt off. He took his shirt off as well and I was momentarily dismayed to find that he’s really hairy (not my thing) but wasn’t as squicked by it as I would have thought I’d be. Soon, he had my pants off as well and was going down on me. It felt good but it wasn’t until he added his fingers inside me that I was able to come. He got me propped up on a pillow and kept moving his tongue lower and lower. Yes, folks, for the first time ever someone has licked my asshole. It felt nice but I really don’t get what all the fuss is about. He not only licked me there but he wet his finger and slid it inside. He fingered my ass while eating me out and I came again. It felt really naughty to have this complete stranger ravaging my asshole like that.

I sucked him briefly but he had me get on hands and knees for a fucking. He fucked me doggy style for a while and Davey was still fingering and going down on the woman. I ended up on my back again and he went down on me some more. By this time I was sweating bullets and needed a break. After a short break he went down on me some more and fucked me again. The thing is, I’m a kinky girl and while he was fucking me I closed my eyes and thought of MasterDoc slapping my face to add some excitement to what was going on. When he was fucking me doggy style he lightly slapped my ass (and I do mean lightly) and I thought to myself, “You call that a spank?” and chuckled inwardly at how this guy would probably be a little freaked to know just how kinky I am. (They didn’t seem the kinky type.) All in all it was just an ok experience. It was fun to watch Davey’s face as the woman went down on him, and the experience wasn’t totally terrible, but I feel really lukewarm about the whole thing. I think in a lot of respects it was too vanilla for me. Or maybe I just didn’t have enough chemistry with the guy. I dunno.

The night before that Davey and I went to a strip club and unfortunately it was pretty slow, and the dancers seemed bored. We had a couple of drinks but mostly it was a waste of time. The one dancer who really put effort into her show was unfortunately quite thin and not curvy, so she wasn’t my type. It’s a shame because had she been curvy I would have quite enjoyed her show. The curvy stripper was totally predictable, every time she’d grab her nipples I knew that next came her right hand sliding down to touch her crotch - every freakin’ time! The same moves, over and over again.

Thankfully, the food and drink on vacation was stellar for the most part, so that made up for the sexy bits being a little underwhelming. On our last night there Davey and I went out to a fancy restaurant, polished off a bottle of wine (after having had beer cocktails before dinner) and went back to the hotel to drunkenly fuck. *grin* During the days we did the tourist thing. It was a short vacation but I love travel so much that I’m glad to even have just a few days away.

“You Suck Some Mean Cock.”

Published
by
Nadia
on August 17, 2008
in bdsm, spanking and swinging
. 3 Comments

I’ll get to the title of this entry later.

I spent all day Friday with MasterDoc. It was hard though because I was premenstrual and really moody. We fucked in the late morning and while I got turned on by his treating me rough, a part of me, the part that was really sensitive emotionally didn’t like being handled so roughly. The spanking didn’t hurt so much as it just seemed to me to be very rough. Despite this, I got all worked up and begged to be allowed to come but didn’t get permission to come that time. I needed cuddles afterwards and all day just felt like I wanted to be petted. It was probably just my mood but I felt like he was really critical of me, and as usual I get hard on myself when I feel like he’s being critical. (We had a talk later about how I need to not be so hard on myself and trust his judgment of me as a sub. If he says I’m a good sub then I shouldn’t fret about my imagined shortcomings.) I was cranky, and MasterDoc wasn’t in a good mood either because he had somehow lost the adapter to his laptop. It just seemed to vanish as it wasn’t anywhere it could possibly be. So the two of us started off Friday evening a little cranky. Now, I wasn’t feeling down all day, it just came up over and over again. We had some good cuddles and I took a bit of a nap in the afternoon.

MasterDoc had discovered a thick wooden spoon and man does that thing sting! He told me that every time I forgot to address him with “Sir” while I had the collar on he would spank me with the spoon. (He had spanked me with the spoon when he was rough earlier.) Argh! Do you know how hard it is to remember to put Sir at the end of every single sentence you speak? It drove me nuts. I felt like there was no way I could do anything but fail. I got wound up and felt like I couldn’t speak up because I had the collar on. One thing I don’t have a clear sense of is how to be submissive yet convey my needs when it’s really needed. I had mentioned earlier that I was feeling super sensitive and it was nothing personal, just hormonal. So since I had my collar on and felt like I couldn’t complain I just stewed until I virtually blew up. Not good. We stopped off at his friend’s place before going to the swing club and took some time to work on our moods. We were both feeling better by the time we left. When I’m premenstrual it’s really a challenge to be submissive.

Still we both managed to perk up and head to the swing club, and what a night to go. The place was busy and a lot was going on. I haven’t had such a good time at a club in a while. I mean, I always have a good time with MasterDoc, but this was an especially good time. We ended up on a bed in the bdsm room. (Where else would you find us? Unless of course you’re talking about the exhibitionists’ room.) I was very focused on MasterDoc and not really noticing what went on around me (if anything). He had me suck his cock for a while, then he had me undress. I lay close to him on the bed and we kissed for a little bit. He played with my clit, getting me worked up. I was breathing heavy and aching to come. He decided to fuck me from behind so I got on my hands and knees. I think this drew a bit of a crowd, particularly when he let me (after much begging) have an orgasm, but I had to make sure my vaginal muscles didn’t push his cock out. It cut down on the pleasure of the orgasm by about 50%, but it was an orgasm just the same and I made quite a racket as usual.

We lay down for a bit and cuddled. He started spanking me, spanking my pussy and thighs then flipping me over to spank my ass. And this time it wasn’t too rough, this time it got me really hot and breathing heavy. An Indian guy came over and MasterDoc told me to lend him a hand. I stroked the stranger’s cock and he asked if he could suck me. MasterDoc granted him permission and the guy got down between my legs and licked my clit. It felt good and when he slid his fingers inside me I was delighted to find that he knew what he was doing. He knew where the g-spot is. When you fool around with someone new you just never know if they’re going to be any good or not and it’s a nice surprise when they really know what they’re doing. Soon I was begging MasterDoc for permission to come and he let me, I came loudly, screaming, over and over again. The guy got down to lick my clit some more and I came some more and this time I squirted. I think it took him by surprise as he sat right up and switched to fingering me again. This guy just would not stop with the fingering and while it felt good he was putting a bit too much pressure on the g-spot. Still, I had many orgasms at this man’s hand and had MasterDoc holding me during, telling me I’m a good girl.

Eventually I really needed a break  (yes, even I need a break from coming every now and again) and MasterDoc shooed the guy away, of course making sure I thanked him first. MasterDoc had me suck his cock some more and I was hard at work when a woman walked into the room and told him that he should be telling me how good it feels when I suck his cock. In typical MasterDoc style he didn’t say something romantic or something like, “Yeah babe that feels good,” he said, “You suck some mean cock.” We both burst out laughing. I don’t know that the woman got the humor of the situation but it is just so like MasterDoc to phrase it that way. He added after that what he really should have said for effect was, “Bitch, you suck some mean cock.” Hopefully those of you who know MasterDoc will appreciate the humor of the situation. As I write this I’m not sure that people who don’t know him personally will get the joke. But hey, it was nice to hear that I suck some mean cock.

He fucked me some more and this time there was more of an audience. What was kind of surreal was this black guy walking around, stroking himself while playing with a dildo in his ass. Later on he found a woman to play with the dildo for him and we got to watch as he was bent over leaning onto the spanking bench, a whole crowd watching him get buggered with a nice sized dildo. It was hot.

Our pal from earlier stopped by again, wanting to play with me some more. MasterDoc let him finger me a bit, but then the guy asked to fuck me, and MasterDoc let him. His fingering was better than his fucking, but it was fun nonetheless. He came pretty quickly and I didn’t manage to come. I was pretty worn out from coming earlier, to tell the truth. Before we left MasterDoc gave me a bit of a spanking/flogging on the spanking bench and other women wanted to try out the flogger on their asses (one climbed on top of me to get her spanking. Rowr. Hot.) It was a wild night. And to think, we both started out in bad moods but in the end we had a spectacular time. I’m so glad we manage to cheer up when we put our minds to it.

Surprise Trip

Published
by
Nadia
on July 7, 2008
in Uncategorized, bdsm, sex parties and swinging
. 0 Comments

Well we didn’t make it to TESFest after all, but I had a great weekend with MasterDoc regardless. I’m a happy girl as I sit here writing this while listening to the soundtrack to Hedwig and the Angry Inch (finally gave in and bought it from iTunes). I met up with MasterDoc at his place on Saturday afternoon. We hung out, watched a movie (Hedwig and the Angry Inch, which I was pleasantly surprised he liked. It’s one of my favorites.) and he alluded to us going out that night. As he does often, he didn’t offer more information about where we were going or what we were getting up to. It makes me a little nervous when I have no idea, but I trust him and I submit to him so I don’t ask questions. That night, we drive for about 40 minutes to an hour off to some suburban area I’d never been to before (I really couldn’t tell you what town I was in even now). We’re on one of those divided roads where you have to make a big u-turn if the place you want to go to is on the other side of the street when he spots the place on the other side of the road and says there it is. The place is a seedy-looking porn shop. I had a feeling as we turned around to get to the shop that this wasn’t just a porn shop, or it was some porn shop he knew about where you could get away with more in the booths than most of them we’ve gone to. I was still nervous as he paid the owner of the shop and the owner directed us to another location on the other side of the divided road. Whatever was going on was going on at that location that night.

We went to the other porn shop and MasterDoc gave the voucher he had gotten from the owner at the other place to the guy behind the counter. He directed us to doors behind us - they appeared to be to video booths, but we were told to go in door number three, which had a “Keep Out” sign on it, and we got buzzed into the door. I’m still wondering what’s up at this point, as we make our way through a labyrinth to a set of rooms with sofas and porn playing on the televisions. It was a swing club, hidden away in a porn shop in the suburbs. It was definitely the seediest looking swing club I’d ever been too, and I suppose that says a lot as swing clubs aren’t usually described as “classy.”

There were just a few people there, some guys hanging around as one guy plays with a woman’s breasts. MasterDoc was disappointed. He had planned to get me gangbanged that night. The pickins were beyond slim. We settled on a sofa and he had me suck his cock. I kept my eyes closed as it was easier to do so in this seedy place. I sucked it til it was hard and threw myself into the task. I opened my eyes and met the eyes of a guy on the next sofa who was stroking himself while I blew MasterDoc.

He had me take a break and then he lamented that we didn’t bring any sort of cushioning for me to get on my knees on the floor. The guys in the room offered the cushion off one of the other couches, and I got on my knees in front of MasterDoc and sucked his cock some more. We certainly were the entertainment that evening. Soon, he had me naked and sitting with my legs spread on the sofa, playing with myself with a vibrator. One of the guys offered to get the woman and make her lick my pussy. The unfortunate thing is that “make” was the operative word. She clearly didn’t want to. After a few awkward moments MasterDoc thanked them and shooed them away.

He asked me if I wanted to get fucked and of course I said, “Yes, Sir.”

“Yes, Sir, what?”

“Yes, Sir, I want to get fucked Sir.”

He had me kneel on the sofa and he got behind me. He smacked my ass a bit and then fucked me. And I have to tell you it was so hot being fucked in that dimly lit, seedy sex club. The seediness added to the hotness factor. I was totally his slut to do with as he wished in front of those creepy guys. We tried another position (but my bad knees prevented it from working). The owner from the other site was there at this point and MasterDoc ordered me to present my tits to him. This guy was old and creepy and MasterDoc knows me well so he knew I wouldn’t like this order. But I did as I was told and tried to ignore the creepy old guy sucking on my tits. I kept up a submissive mantra in my head, “I’m doing this for him, I’m doing this for him.” (MasterDoc) It only lasted a brief minute but MasterDoc took great sadistic pleasure in my discomfort. I was relieved when it was over.

The club was totally dead by this point, so, disappointed that no gangbang occurred, we packed up and left. We headed to J’s house, another girlfriend of MasterDoc’s and spent the night there with the intention of going to TESFest the next day (Sunday).
Unfortunately I had one of my bouts of insomnia and got very little sleep that night. When MasterDoc came to wake me up I explained how little sleep I had gotten and he asked me if I wanted to sleep or go to TESFest. I opted for sleep. He kindly let me catch up on the sleep I had missed. A couple of hours later we had breakfast and hung out with J. for a little while. Then we headed back to MasterDoc’s place. (By this time it didn’t make sense to go and pay for a whole day at TESFest.) What we got up to on Sunday is my next blog entry.

Hot Night at the Swing Club

Published
by
Nadia
on May 20, 2008
in bdsm, sex and swinging
. 0 Comments

Saturday night, MasterDoc picked me up at my place late in the evening. We headed out to one of our swing club haunts, on this particular night because I knew a friend of mine would be doing tarot readings there. She and her wife were there and it was nice to see them in the first time in over a year. We hung out, checking out the scene, MasterDoc saying that he was going to feel grumpy if it was a quiet night at the club. He spotted a couple and said that he wanted to fuck the woman, and I thought she was pretty cute as well. The question of course was whether this was going to happen (and was she bi?).

I was eager to do something and we went over to the spanking bench. He had me pull my pants down and he gave me a bit of a spanking - I didn’t realize at the time but he was clever enough to do it when the couple in question was around. We talked to them a little bit later and he asked them if what we did had been “interesting” or “scary.” They both agreed it was interesting. The woman asked me, “Do you switch?” And I, ever slow on the uptake, said, “No, not really.” Of course before long it became clear even to me that she was looking for me to spank her. Now I’m terrible at Dommeing but I can top a little bit when the need arises and it came in handy the other night. We went off into a private room at her request and I got her on her hands and knees on the mattress, panties pulled down and dress pulled up. MasterDoc had me get out the implements I was going to use to spank her and lay them out. I started with my hands and moved on to the crop. Her bottom was nice and rosy. I got her completely naked and someone (I forget who, was it her?) handed me nipple clamps so I put them on her. She had really good nipples to clamp, they stick out a fair amount, like pencil erasers.

I got naked too and we played with each other’s nipples. I wet a finger and put it in between her labia to stroke her clit. As I dipped down into her pussy I found that she was quite wet. After the nipple clamps were off, she dove at my pussy, and started going down on me. Meanwhile, the guys were watching all this, stroking their hard cocks. She ate me out for a while and started fingering me as well. MasterDoc started licking my nipples as she went down on me. Eventually I came.

The problem with not blogging the day after something happens is that memory gets a little fuzzy. This is all a reconstruction of what I remember, and some bits are probably off. But then again only the people who were there would know what isn’t quite accurate. I know at some point I sucked MasterDoc’s cock. And at some point I fingered the woman to orgasm. Then MasterDoc decided to fuck me first (on my hands and knees) and the woman’s husband (making an assumption here) fucked her right beside me. I came again as did she. Her hubby turned her over and fucked her on her back for quite a while. I lost count of how many orgasms she had. MasterDoc encouraged me to play with her, and to get my hand in to where their bodies met. I stroked her clit and the combination of fucking and fingering got her off again. Her husband fucked her long and slow. We played with her nipples as he fucked her. MasterDoc instructed me to get her flipped over and turned around when he was done, so that he could fuck her too. He managed to get her turned around himself and he fucked her. I watched, as I was ready for a break but of course got scolded for not doing something so I played with her nipples a bit and played with MasterDoc’s ass a bit.

He fucked her for a while, then switched to his fingers. She came again really hard and at that point asked him to stop what he was doing. He thought that maybe his nails were too long or he was fingering her too hard. But she shyly whispered to me that she had squirted and she seemed quite embarrassed about it. We all got dressed after that. Phone numbers were exchanged and beverages consumed. They’re visiting from Australia (but are originally from what was Yugoslavia) so no telling if we’ll see them again before they leave but it’s a possibility. We headed home after this.

The next day I spent some time with MasterDoc and we fooled around, me giving him a whole lotta head (til my neck hurt) and him fingering me, thankfully, to orgasm. It was intense but as I was erm, inebriated (in a manner of speaking) at the time I can’t remember the finer details. It was hot. Suffice it to say it was hot. And I played with MasterDoc’s ass until he came. Again, much hotness on Sunday, details are scarce. *grin*

Which leads me to my next entry, what I did Saturday morning and afternoon…… More to come.

BBC and Me

Published
by
Nadia
on February 23, 2008
in bbc, bdsm and swinging
. 0 Comments

MasterDoc came up with the title of this entry. lol I’ll explain what it means later. No, it’s nothing to do with the British Broadcasting Corporation. Silly readers, you should be able to guess that it’s something to do with sex.

Friday night we went out to a swing club (where else) with a friend of mine (who’s also friends with S. Yes, the local poly world is small.). I hadn’t seen this friend in ages. When I was first getting to know her there was this ambiguity as to what what going on - were we friends? Were we dating? When it comes to women, I tend to err on the side of thinking things are purely platonic/ non-sexual. After all, the majority of my relationships with women have been platonic ones. I just considered us friends and thought no more about it. Recently I heard through the grapevine of mutual friends that apparently she was interested in me and I hadn’t realized it. Doh. I think also that maybe I wasn’t thinking about having something serious with her, and she seemed to me, at the time, to be a serious relationships type of gal (husband, long term girlfriend). Little did I know that she did some swinging from time to time. Hmmm.

So MasterDoc invited her to go out with us one night, and Friday was the night. When we got to the club we had a couple of drinks at the bar then took my friend on a tour of the club. We spent time hanging out, getting comfortable. MasterDoc ordered me to bend over the spanking bench and he gave me a good spanking to start off the evening. We drew a nice little crowd. He had me take my pants down first and then a little bit later, take my top off. I had to be louder than usual when it hurt too much because the club is noisy (music). MasterDoc invited my friend to play with the top half and she straddled the spanking bench in front of me. We kissed, touched, played. I rubbed her clit through the fabric of her damp velvet panties.

We took a little break after the spanking, and all three cuddled on the couch a bit. Occasionally single men would approach us, the worst of the bunch was a guy who told my friend that he’s her “Master tonight.” Yeah, right. Does that line ever work? On the other end of the spectrum was a nice, young African-American man named Alphonso. He simply introduced himself and was friendly to us, chatting about how this was his first time at the club. He got to hang out with us.

While we sat on the sofa there was some groping, flirting and of course me going down on MasterDoc for a while. My friend likes being sub as well, and since MasterDoc is good at wielding a flogger he offered to string her up on the cross (a vestige of when the club was once a bdsm club). I acted as assistant and got her wrists secured to the cross. He started with spanking her ass, getting her warmed up. I stood by with the flogger and crop at the ready. He had me hold the flashlight - a very good accessory for a swing club, allows you to find stuff in your toy bag, but also to highlight something that’s going on - such as MasterDoc’s hands hitting my friend’s ass. When he asked for the flogger, I handed it to him, and he gave her a good flogging, not only on her butt but her back as well. The heavy flogger is nice and thuddy and works well on large areas of the body. He would occasionally reach between her legs and touch her, probably checking to see how wet she was and to stroke her a bit. I enjoyed watching as watching a flogging is almost as much of a turn on as having one done. Again, we drew quite a crowd.

When she got let down off the cross she needed a drink of water, which I went and fetched. Sometimes after a scene it takes a few minutes to come back down to earth and a drink of water or a small snack can help with that. Once she felt composed again, she got dressed and the three of us wandered a bit more.

Eventually we ended up in a room (a rather open room of course) with Alphonso joining us. Again, a crowd formed. The focus turned to my friend and after MasterDoc fingered her for a bit I joined in. For the second time I was told that I’m quite good with my fingers (perhaps I should start believing it and have more confidence). I stroked her g-spot and at one point moisture just flooded her pussy, enveloping my hand. After some more foreplay (and many hands on my body at one point), MasterDoc offered my cunt to Alphonso. This was notable, because I had never, in my 35 years fucked a black man. I’ve never had anything against doing it, they’re just not my aesthetic preference. (Much like I prefer feminine women, but occasionally I’ll see a boyish girl who will turn my head, I mostly prefer white or hispanic guys, with Saajan bringing Indian into the mix.) Alphonso had a BBC - big, black cock - and thus the title of this entry. He fucked me on top and it felt really good. I finally had to call out to MasterDoc for permission to come. (Luckily my friend heard me and brought my pleas to his attention as he fucked her from behind.) I was given permission and I came. Soon after, Alphonso came as well. He thanked me for the experience and said he was going to go hang out for a while. Next, MasterDoc fucked me from behind, and again I was allowed to come. When my muscles pushed him out he continued with his fingers and I came really loud. (Ah, the joys of being at a club, where louder is better. I am so noisy.)

We rested, and the crowd dispersed a bit. After a while, MasterDoc told me to go fetch Alphonso and ask if he’s up for round two - i.e., this time fucking my friend as she was quite interested. (Inwardly, MasterDoc and I were a little disappointed that she didn’t seem more interested in playing with either of us.) I went out naked into the club, found him, and asked him if he was up for round two. He was unsure he could perform again in one night, but he was willing to try. He said he’d like to fuck me doggy style and I pointed out that my friend had wanted a turn with him. We went back to the room and he fucked my friend, with MasterDoc and I watching (among other people). He couldn’t keep going for long, but gave it the old college try. Afterwards, we decided to clean up (here, again the flashlight came in handy as I checked the room for our toys) and get dressed. We had drinks and relaxed a bit. MasterDoc ended up giving a flogging lesson to a guy who had ducked his head in the room and asked, “Can I borrow your whippy thing?” We had all agreed that if you don’t know the name of the object (a flogger) you really shouldn’t be wielding it. MasterDoc has a very heavy, expensive, lovely flogger which can be dangerous if you don’t know what you’re doing. So he showed the man how to do it and let him have a try on his partner. He also showed him how to use the crop and the woman asked me, “How do you take this?” I just pointed out that I’m kinky and I enjoy it.

We headed home, having had a very fun evening indeed. We dropped my friend at her car and called it a night. The next morning, MasterDoc and I fucked some more, in various positions. It felt really good but I couldn’t quite reach the point of orgasm. It turned out that this was just as well as MasterDoc had decided that I wasn’t going to be allowed to come that morning. After some lovely fucking, MasterDoc had me explore his body, seeing how I could use my mouth and fingers to arouse him. He set himself up on his side and had me play with his back and ass while he stroked himself. I massaged right around his asshole for a while and he came onto the towel he had put out. As we hung out afterwards, he dipped the tip of his finger in the come and wrote on my body with it, writing out “cunt” in come. He shooed me, sending me home. And I headed home with a nice blog entry brewing in my mind. And this, dear readers, is where you came in.

Swing Club

Published
by
Nadia
on February 19, 2008
in sex and swinging
. 0 Comments

Last night I went out to a swing club with Davey, and we met MasterDoc and S. there. I was actually feeling horny (hooray for the lowered prozac dose!) so I was keen to fuck and since I was there as Davey’s date I had free reign to fuck whomever I wanted. I lucked out and there was actually a reasonably attractive guy there with a nice body. He was certainly in the right place at the right time. The four of us (me, Davey, MD, S.) were playing in a room with our respective dates (me and Davey, MasterDoc and S.). Davey fingered me, and I glanced through the doorway at this guy sitting alone, naked, stroking himself. In the dim light of the club it wasn’t easy to see if he was attractive or not, so I only stole occasional glances, but I was developing a plan in my mind.

I got out the bullet vibe and had Davey finger me until I came, while I used the vibe on my clit. It was nice to be able to come at will and I came pretty hard, but surprisingly I didn’t squirt at all. Orgasming is still a little bit of a struggle, not as easy as I remember it once being, but it’s improving. S. came over to help get Davey hard (it’s not easy being naked in public) and I wandered off, naked, to get a drink of water from the bar. I got a better look at the guy in the chair then, and decided that I’d like to fuck him. I went back into the room and caressed and kissed Davey as S. went down on him. I whispered to Davey, “I’m going to go see if that guy wants to fuck me.” Davey asked me to get him his glasses as he wanted to see me simply go up to this guy and ask if he wanted to fuck.

I walked over to the guy and somewhat shyly said, “Would you be up to fucking me?” It took a second for this to register in his head and he muttered bewilderedly something like, “Yeah, sure. I’ll try.” I went back into the room and knelt with my ass in the air, stroking my pussy while he got himself hard and the condom on. (I had handed him the condom - always good to be prepared and make it ultra clear that condoms are to be worn.) He fucked me from behind and I managed to come again towards the end - as usual my muscles ejected his penis as I came, but he was coming by this time as well so we finished with him rubbing up against me on the outside. I’m sure I made this guy’s night, as going to a swing club as a single male has the potential to be an expensive evening of just watching other people. Davey watched the whole thing right next to me as S. went down on him. (He likes seeing me fuck.)

It was nearly time for Davey and I to head home as we had work the next morning. But as Davey and I hadn’t fucked yet I was definitely up for staying a bit longer and fucking. We tried with me on top but the beds are crap at this club (either air mattresses you have to do a balancing act on, or uneven, hard, futonesque couches) so we couldn’t get things going right. We switched over to me on my back and this worked much better. We fucked for a while and Davey finally got to come.

Just before we were leaving, I looked over and MasterDoc was playing with S.’s breasts while some guy massaged her pussy. She was begging to be allowed to come and finally MasterDoc gave permission. She came really hard and it’s fun watching her come because she comes so hard. She also squirts every time so her panties were soaked (luckily they had put a towel down underneath her since the squirting was expected). We let her collect herself before we said our goodbyes and we left them to stay late into the night, hopefully getting up to more mischief.

After a stop on the west side for some fresh bagels, we drove home noshing on bagels (mine was still warm - yummo) and talking about what we had gotten up to that evening. I never cease to amaze Davey when I do something like go up to some random stranger and ask him to fuck. lol I did get that guy’s name afterward so he wasn’t a completely anonymous fuck - just anonymous while I was fucking him.

What a good start to the week.

Busy Weekend, Part I

Published
by
Nadia
on February 10, 2008
in bdsm, sex and swinging
. 2 Comments

Reducing my dose of prozac seems to have helped somewhat with my sexual response. I’m hoping it will help further with a little more time. Davey and I had a good time in bed for his birthday, and I was more responsive than I’ve been in a while.

This weekend I got up to no good two nights in a row. I’ve been a busy girl. On Friday, I saw MasterDoc as usual. We went out to the swing club he’s been going to a lot lately - either with me or with S. There were quite a few eager single men there, as well as an eager older couple. I mean, the eager couple were senior citizens. We spent some time getting the lay of the land, trying to make eye contact with an attractive younger couple with no luck. We went off into one of the back rooms and spent some time cuddling before getting started. I sucked his cock for a while and he received a phone call while I was doing this (not the first time he’s answered his phone while we’re in the middle of something). He said something to the person on the other end of the phone about being sorry that she couldn’t join us. I wondered if this had to do with the surprise he said he had for me, but then said wasn’t going to happen. Indeed, it was a woman who he was seeking to join us for the evening.

A bit later, when we went to get out the little vibrator that we bring along, we discovered that the battery was dead. Oh no! He asked the owner of the club for a battery, and while the owner wandered off MasterDoc turned to me and said, “When he comes back I want you to grab the battery and thank him effusively.” I was mortified, but then humiliation was the point of that exercise. I’m very shy around new people, so to act like that was really hard for me. I did as I was told but I was embarrassed the whole time. The first battery didn’t work, but the owner came back with more and we got the vibe working again. I was happy to know that the vibe was at my disposal (if MasterDoc allowed me to use it, that is).

We went back into one of the back rooms, and as I went down on MasterDoc he allowed one of the single guys to begin groping me. Now, as long as I knew that MasterDoc was in control of the situation, I found it hot to be groped by complete strangers. The only time I got a little nervous was when the guy behind me put his hand down my pants and started fingering me - I wasn’t sure if MasterDoc could see what exactly the guy was doing. When someone else would reach a hand in and start touching me, I’d be reassured when MasterDoc would sternly tell them, “No touching without asking first.” Soon, at least two guys were groping my body while I sucked MasterDoc’s cock. The guys around me had their cocks out and were stroking themselves. MasterDoc got out a condom, and asked me if I wanted to get fucked. “Yes, Sir,” I replied. He then looked at one of the guys, held out the condom and asked, “Do you want to fuck her?”

Of course the guy was happy to oblige. And here was the first time I’ve ever fucked someone having absolutely no idea what their name is and having gotten only a glance at what they looked like. The guy fucked me from behind as I continued to suck MasterDoc’s cock. My moans were muffled by having the cock in my mouth. I’m sure the small crowd that had gathered in the room was glad to be watching, the guys probably hoping they’d be next to get a turn. Since I had no connection to the guy fucking me, whatsoever, it was all about the sensations in my cunt, and the thrill of doing something so naughty - fucking some complete stranger because MasterDoc decided to have me fuck him. Granted, I’ve fucked strangers before, but not someone whose name I hadn’t gotten, who I had no conversation with beforehand.

We fucked for a bit then MasterDoc decided he wanted to fuck me himself. He fucked me good and hard from behind and I made such a racket moaning. I just love being out at clubs because my loudness is desirable there. I love when MasterDoc fucks me, his cock feels so good. After fucking for a while he decided to let me come, despite my “auto-eject” feature (my muscles clamp down so much they push penises out). I came, screaming and moaning, and when my muscles pushed him out MasterDoc continued with his fingers. We had drawn quite a crowd by this time.

He decided that we should get dressed and move around a bit. I was feeling a little irked by the old guy (of the old couple) who, more than once, reached out and touched me without asking. I wasn’t interested in him to begin with, and his being so rude just annoyed the heck out of me. I trusted MasterDoc to take care of the situation (and he did), but I came really close to telling the guy to back off myself.

We hung out some more. At one point MasterDoc set me up in the back room with a blindfold on, playing with the magic wand through my clothes. Unfortunately the wand started numbing me a bit (the down side of the wand). It was getting late so MasterDoc decided we should go home (I was glad because I was getting pretty tired).

The next morning, he had me suck him for a bit then get on top and ride him. (Not enough time for foreplay, he just had me use lube to get myself ready.) We fucked for a while and I love how he grabs hold of my head and thrusts deep inside me. His hands block my ears for a moment and it’s a tiny bit of sensory deprivation. I’m getting all horny just thinking about it now. (Yup, the reduced prozac has given me back some of my libido.)

Next installment: what I got up to Saturday night as a surprise for Davey’s birthday. *grin*

Inebriated

Published
by
Nadia
on January 27, 2008
in sex and swinging
. 0 Comments

Usually I’m pretty reserved as far as alcohol and the like. As I’ve said here before, sex is my real vice. This weekend however I went a bit overboard and a really enjoyable time of it. Saturday night I went out with some friends to dinner and got myself good and drunk (Davey made sure I got home, and then gleefully “took advantage” of me in my drunken state. Of course I put that in quotes because it was all quite consensual.) I got chatty in my drunkeness and finally asked my cross-dressing ex if his wife knows about his cross dressing and kinkiness. (I’ve been wondering for a few years now!) Alas, the answer was “we don’t talk about that” but that he’s “happy.” Hmm. So I suppose I’m still the only girlfriend he was ever really open to about his cd and kinky interests. I think I blathered something else in his ear about what ever happened to all the wonderful kinky gear he had (I missed that when he and I broke up! Fun stuff!) he said some of it’s still around. Drunk as I was, I think I said something offhandedly like, “Well if you ever want to get rid of that stuff I’m right here!” lol I do hope I didn’t embarrass myself TOO much last night. I was discreet about asking him the questions about cross dressing and kinkiness so the rest of our friends didn’t hear and his wife didn’t hear. I then whispered in his ear about how I have a Dom now who I see about once a week but that of course, “Davey knows. Our relationship is really open.” I’m sure my ex went home last night thinking that he knows way more than he ever wanted to about what I’m up to right now. lol Man was I chatty! Soon it became a joke with Davey and my ex when I’d say for the 12th, 13th, 14th, etc. time that “I’m so drunk right now!” All I had was two margaritas. But this place in the city makes margaritas that will kick your ass. (Plus all day I had only eaten a bagel with lox and cream cheese with MasterDoc early in the afternoon. Then I started drinking in the evening before dinner. I was sloshed before I was through my first drink and we ordered food.)

Friday night I went out with MasterDoc and was intoxicated on something else. I had barely ever been in that state before, so it was interesting walking the city streets feeling delightfully disoriented and high. I felt really cuddly towards MasterDoc and kissing him that night was so wonderful. He threatened to have a whole bunch of guys fuck me at the swing club that night, and I so would have been up for it. *grin* I keep waiting for the day he finally makes good on that threat.

The club was a bit slow, and ultimately the most we did with anyone else was having this rather chatty guy play with my breasts while MasterDoc got me worked up. The guy offered that we could go into one of the private back rooms (yet again we were camped out in the “exhibitionist room” and kept hearing the owner give tours and point this room out, which made me a bit giggly in my state) so that MasterDoc could have “two slaves.” Oh my. Alas, men are not MasterDoc’s type. But interesting that he picked up on what my wearing a collar meant more or less.

MasterDoc had me play with myself, getting myself right to the edge. I found myself more horny than usual and I was able to get myself on the edge which can be so hard these days. (Early Feb I see my shrink to talk about different medication.) MasterDoc then fucked me from behind and it felt wonderful. I love how loud you can get in a club and I was screaming as I came. I was too far off in my own headspace to notice, but MasterDoc tells me that we drew a crowd, including the voyeuristic female bartender who I’m glad to hear watched us. There was a guy there who he would have given a turn to, but the guy was too reserved and didn’t show any interest. *sigh*

My memories of the weekend are slightly fuzzy, but damn I had a good time. Can’t live your life like that all the time (I have a friend who would beg to differ but then she’s always unhappy despite the “fun” she has with drugs and alcohol.) and now I’m back to my sober life. I like taking excursions on the wild side, but do so prudently so that I don’t harm myself or others. Both nights I had men who I trusted with me (Davey or MasterDoc) so that I wasn’t left in an intoxicated state without someone to watch out for me.

Three Out on the Town

Published
by
Nadia
on January 22, 2008
in sex and swinging
. 0 Comments

Yesterday I was horny and looking forward to fucking Davey when he got home. However, he ended up having to work late, and he didn’t know what time he was going to get home. Oh bother. Earlier in the day, MasterDoc had asked me if I wanted to go out to a swing club with him and I had said no because I had plans with Davey. (Davey’s working long hours just now, so we haven’t had much sex lately. I gave him a blow job on Friday evening but it’s been a while since we’ve had sex.) With Davey not getting home on time, MasterDoc asked if I wanted to join him and S. in going to the swing club after all. S. had never been to one before, so having me along might actually help her feel a bit more comfortable. (As mentioned here before, S. is another sub of MasterDoc’s and she and I have become friends. Together we make up the MasterDoc fan club.) It was going to be an early night since I had work the next day, but I was really in the mood to be fucked so I was glad to go out. I hoped that with MasterDoc needing to focus on making S. feel comfortable, I might be able to have a little freedom to fuck at will. This was mentioned to MasterDoc on the way there, and he said he’d take the matter under advisement.

S. was understandably nervous, but at the same time she was excited to be trying something new. When we got to the club, S. and I were the only women there (for a while afterwards too) and of course MasterDoc looked like quite the stud with two women hanging on him. (Everyone else there was a single guy.) We took some time to get comfortable, then MasterDoc had S. blow him right there in front of everyone. She was nervous but got into it quite well. He and I kissed a bit while she went down on him. After some time, he had us switch.

Eventually another couple arrived so we weren’t the only women there, then another couple. But no one was really playing yet. We went over to an air mattress that’s only barely hidden behind a mesh curtain and MasterDoc got naked, then had S. get naked. She was really nervous, but did as she was told. He had her blow him some more and she was able to focus on that task rather than her feelings of self-consciousness. I sat next to them and MasterDoc had me take my top off and he played with my breasts while getting the blow job. (As we played last night, every so often we heard the owner of the club go by giving a tour and he’d point out that where we were playing is “the exhibitionist room” and indeed the exhibitionists were having a grand time there. Made me grin a little whenever this happened. MasterDoc and I are definitely exhibitionists.) At one point, MasterDoc commanded S. to come, without even touching her breasts or genitals, and she came. Quite amazing to watch. I had heard she was capable of that but hadn’t seen it. I’m a little bit jealous, I wish I could do that.

Every so often MasterDoc would ask if there was anyone there I’d like to fuck. There were a few guys there I wouldn’t have minded fucking, but no one I was totally drooling over. Plus, I get shy when saying things. I would express that there were guys I was “willing to fuck” but not outright say that I wanted to fuck someone. This inability to verbalize cost me some fucking. But MasterDoc had fun spanking both of us (butts in the air in the same direction). And I got to be fucked by MasterDoc (and allowed to come. And when my vagina did it’s usual “eject” contractions upon orgasm, he finished me off with his hands.) I was very happy to have been fucked, particularly by MasterDoc, but I could have taken more. We had one persistent viewer, and he seemed okay, so when MasterDoc checked to see if I’d mind playing with him, I said I didn’t mind. The guy expressed the desire to kiss my cunt and so MasterDoc invited him to do so. He went down on me for a while, then slid his fingers inside me. It felt really good but he didn’t quite get me over the edge. (Damn prozac, I used to come easily regardless of whether a guy was good at fingering me, but now I only manage to eke out little mild orgasms instead.) If the guy had made me come with his fingers/tongue, MasterDoc was going to let him fuck me, but in the end it didn’t happen. Still, I had fun being slutty - being eaten out by some guy whose name I don’t know - hot! The guy was really appreciative about what he had gotten to do. While the guy went down on me, MasterDoc fucked S., which was fun to watch as well.

By this time it was time to head home, which was a shame as the place was just getting busy. Damn work hinders my sex life again! ;-) Despite her nervousness, S. had a good time and she and MasterDoc are going back next Monday night. Hooray.

I realized last night that there’s about three levels of attraction or non-attraction for me. There’s people I’m physically attracted to right away, or people who I’m mentally attracted to after getting to know them a bit. Then there’s people who I’m not especially attracted to, but I feel comfortable with them and I’m enough of a slut to fuck these people if asked to (or they happen to be who’s around and I’m horny). And at the bottom of the ladder are people I’m very much not attracted to and/or who I feel somehow uncomfortable or unsafe with. These are the people I’d rather not fuck. The guy who fingered me fell into the second category. Oh and people who are in the first category for their looks can drop a category or two if I get to know them and they’re dumb and/or obnoxious. Whereas people who are in the second category can jump to the first if I get to know them and they’re smart and wonderful. Anyway, I’m babbling. And that’s the tale of what I got up to last night.